Me and my mother-in-law never got along since we met, something that I tried to change but to no avail. Then she suddenly changed and started being suspiciously nice to me, only for me to discover that she had a valid reason to do so. For three years, Cynthia treated me like an intruder in her son’s life.
Every holiday was a minefield. Her passive-aggressive insults were wrapped in a thin layer of politeness, just enough for plausible deniability. Then one day her demeanor changed toward me, and when I discovered why, I was livid.
I always knew that my mother-in-law (MIL), Cynthia, hated me. It wasn’t something she said outright, but she didn’t have to. It was all evident in her behavior, the fake smiles, and the snide comments she gave me.
“Oh, Susan, I see you’re still wearing your hair like that. Brave choice,” she’d say. At our wedding?
She wore white. A lacy, floor-length gown that could have easily been mistaken for a bridal dress. She floated around the reception like a ghostly shadow, smiling sweetly as she introduced herself to my relatives as “the real Mrs.
Williams.”
My MIL also insisted on having my husband, Dave’s ex-girlfriend, invited to our wedding as a guest, leaving no mystery as to how she felt about me. During my pregnancy? She casually suggested to Dave, “You know, it wouldn’t hurt to get a DNA test, just to be certain.” I overheard it.
Her voice had that sugary tone that made it sound almost like a joke. Almost. And every holiday after that?
I was mysteriously “forgotten” from the guest list. Dave would get a last-minute call. “Oh, it must have slipped my mind to invite Susan.
You should still come, though!”
My husband, ever the peacemaker, never stood up to her. “That’s just how she is, babe. Don’t take it personally,” he told me.
It was obvious to me that she didn’t believe I was good enough for her son and never would be. So, I stopped trying or caring and accepted we’d never be close. I stopped forcing smiles, stopped initiating conversations, and stopped expecting her to like me.
…The story doesn’t end here, it continues on the next page 👇
