My kids started calling my ex’s wife “Mommy Sarah.” My 6-year-old trembled: “She yells if we don’t.” When I confronted her, she laughed: “Face it—I’m their real mother now.” My ex stayed silent. That night, he came over and said firmly, “If you ever feel disrespected…”
I looked at him, thinking he was finally going to defend me. Maybe tell me he didn’t know she was acting like that.
But no—he just nodded, eyes low. “If you ever feel disrespected, just tell me. I’ll talk to her.” Then he turned around and left.
I stood at the doorway for a while, stunned. That was it? Talk to her?
Like this wasn’t emotional abuse aimed at our kids and me? Look, I’m not bitter about the divorce. We were better apart than we ever were together.
We split three years ago, agreed on joint custody, and tried to keep it peaceful. For the first year, it kinda was. Then came Sarah.
She was all smiles at first. Too smiley, honestly. That kind of bless your heart sweetness that’s mostly sugar-coated condescension.
At first, the kids came home saying things like, “Sarah makes the best lasagna!” or “Sarah buys us gifts on Wednesdays!” I didn’t care. I mean, good for them. I want them loved and safe.
But it changed gradually. Like when my youngest, Mira, stopped calling me “Mommy” and started just saying “Mom.” Not a huge deal, but it stung. Then my 8-year-old, Rafid, started correcting me on how I packed their lunch.
“That’s not how Sarah does it.”
Fine, I told myself. Let it go. Co-parenting is hard.
No one writes a manual for how to deal with a bonus mom who’s trying to play lead. But then came the big one. Mira whispered to me after bath time, tugging her towel tight around her tiny shoulders, “We have to call her Mommy Sarah.
She yells if we don’t.”
I stopped brushing her hair mid-stroke. “What kind of yelling?”
She winced. “Like big voice yelling.
Like scary yelling.”
My stomach dropped. I didn’t want to put words in her mouth, but I asked, “Does she scare you, Mira?”
Mira didn’t answer. She just looked at the floor and picked at her thumb.
I texted my ex right then: We need to talk. Urgently. He agreed to drop by that night after dinner.
I didn’t even wait for pleasantries. As soon as the kids went to bed, I told him everything. How Mira was trembling.
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