s down the street needed a nanny for their twins. They’re paying more than you did, and they seem to actually appreciate what I do.”

My heart clenched. “Mom, I’m so sorry.

I had no idea he would —”

“It’s okay, sweetheart. Maybe it’s for the best. I love you and the girls, but I won’t work where I’m not valued.”

The next few weeks were chaos.

The daycare cost more than we’d paid Mom, and the kids were constantly sick. No more home-cooked meals, no more flexible pickup times, and no more grandmother’s love woven into every moment of their day.

“Another ear infection?” Miles groaned as I hung up with the pediatrician. “That’s the third one this month!”

“That’s what happens when they’re exposed to so many other kids,” I replied, trying to soothe a crying Amber while Evie clung to my leg, also running a fever.

“Well, one of us has to stay home with them,” he said.

“And I have that big client meeting tomorrow.”

“Of course you do,” I whispered.

The breaking point came when Miles was late picking up the girls one evening.

“Seventy-five dollars?” he exploded, waving a late pickup fee notice. “This is highway robbery!”

I saw Mom occasionally at the grocery store, looking happier than ever. “The Andersons are wonderful,” she said one day.

“They actually thanked me yesterday for making dinner. And they’re paying me $4,300 a month now.”

“Maybe we should call Mom,” I suggested innocently to Miles that night.

“Fine,” he growled. “Tell her she can come back.

Same pay.”

I smiled sweetly. “She’s making $4,300 now, Miles. And they appreciate her.”

His face turned red.

“That’s ridiculous! She doesn’t need that much money! We’ll handle this.”

That’s when I knew exactly what he needed: a lesson in reality.

“I have a business trip next week,” I announced casually over breakfast.

“Five days. I’ve already cleared it with your boss… you have the time off to watch the kids.”

“What? But I can’t —”

“Sure you can.

It’s just watching kids all day. How hard could it be? After all, it’s a privilege to spend time with your children, right?”

I packed my bags for the spa resort I’d booked, leaving Miles a detailed schedule of the girls’ routines.

“Don’t worry,” I said, kissing his cheek. “You’ve got this.”

His messages started rolling in by day two:

“How do you get Amber to eat her vegetables?”

“Evie won’t stop crying about her pink cup.”

“The washing machine is making weird noises.”

“Please call me back.”

“I haven’t slept in 48 hours.”

“How does your mom do this all day?”

“PLEASE COME BACK… I’M SORRY.”

I turned off my phone and ordered another massage.

When I finally returned home, the house looked like a tornado had hit it. Toys littered every surface, dishes filled the sink, and laundry overflowed from the hampers.

Miles sat on the couch, unshaven and hollow-eyed, surrounded by chaos. Both girls were eating cereal straight from the box.

“Your mother,” he said hoarsely, “is a saint.”

I set down my bags. “Oh?”

“I was wrong.

So wrong.” He ran his hands through his greasy hair. “I’ll apologize to her. Whatever she wants to be paid, it’s worth it.

More than worth it. Please, just ask her to come back.”

“And?”

“And I’m sorry. To you.

To her. To everyone.” He looked up at me, eyes red-rimmed. “I get it now.

I really get it. I had no idea how much work it was. How she managed to keep the house clean and cook meals and take care of them… I couldn’t even get them to nap at the same time.”

“The Andersons really appreciate her,” I said pointedly.

“They thank her for dinner. They respect her experience. They PAY her what she’s worth.”

“I’ll do better,” he promised.

“I’ll match what they’re paying. More, even. And I’ll never take her for granted again.”

“Those aren’t my conditions to set anymore,” I reminded him.

“You’ll have to convince her yourself.”

Mom agreed to meet us for coffee the following Sunday. Miles, still humbled by his five days of solo parenting, could barely meet her eyes.

“Wendy,” his voice cracked. “I was wrong.

So wrong. The way I treated you… there’s no excuse.”

Mom stirred her coffee slowly. “No, there isn’t.”

“I understand now what you do.

What you’ve always done for us. And I’m not just sorry… I’m ashamed.”

She looked at him steadily. “It was never about the money, Miles.

It was about respect.”

“I know that now.” He swallowed hard. “The Andersons are lucky to have you. But if you’d consider coming back… we’d match their pay, of course.

And I swear things would be different.”

Mom glanced at me, then back at Miles. “Different how?”

“I’d treat you like the professional you are. Because that’s what you are — a professional who chose to help our family.

Not someone doing us a favor, but someone providing an invaluable service.”

Mom was quiet for a long moment, considering. Finally, she said, “I’ll need that in writing. Including sick days and vacation time.”

“Absolutely,” Miles agreed quickly.

“Whatever you want.”

As I watched them hash out the details, I couldn’t help but smile. Sometimes the best way to teach someone value isn’t to tell them — it’s to show them. And sometimes, it takes losing something precious to realize just how precious it was.

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