Despite continuously following these procedures, her hygiene practices have not changed since they first met. Nevertheless, George repeatedly made disparaging remarks about her personal hygiene repeatedly. Lilly admitted, “I grew so concerned about my body smelling horrible that I began to shower three times a day and use a special powerful deodorant every hour (I even had a reminder on my phone).
I used perfume and washed my teeth five times a day, whenever I ate or drank something other than water.”
Lilly’s mental well-being suffered as a result of George’s comments. Receiving unpleasant reminders about body odor on a daily basis from a loved one can be extremely distressing. Lilly admitted to being deeply hurt by George’s actions.
The woman wrote, “I thought I was going insane. I was confident that I did not smell awful throughout our relationship. And I didn’t think I smelt bad at the time, but it was obvious that I did smell bad to my husband.
I’ve always been the type of person that discreetly sniffs their own armpits. I went to the doctor, and he said there was nothing wrong with my health.”
“The whole thing was getting to the point where I literally started asking my friends and family members to smell my armpits and to tell me honestly if I smelled bad,” Lilly says. “They all said I didn’t smell like body odor at all, one family member even said I smelled too clean like a lush store.”
One day, Lilly discovered the reason why she was smelling bad for her husband.
One day, Lilly unexpectedly discovered the truth about her husband’s strange conduct. She was so overcome with fear at that time that she avoided snuggling or kissing George whenever he addressed her imagined odor. One morning, Lilly went for a walk while George stayed at home.
She explained, “I walked out and promised George that I’d be returning in about 3 hours. I was thinking about going to see my sister and decided to walk there to get some fresh air when I got a horrible feeling. I decided to return home and lay down rather than walk, and I arrived around 30 minutes after leaving.
Of course, George did not expect me to be back”
Lilly continues her narrative, saying, “Just because I felt awful, I entered the house quietly, trying not to make any extra noise with my keys, etc. I had a horrible headache, and every sound echoed in my head with increasing anguish. George didn’t hear me come in because he was on a video conference with his mother.” Lilly stated that George and her MIL were conversing loudly and appeared to be having an altercation.
The woman was upset by the loud noises coming from George’s room, and she wanted to step in and ask him to put on headphones while talking to his mother. Then she understood they were talking about her. Lilly said, “George was uncomfortably telling MIL that he’s bored up with this ‘smelly game’.
He seemed worried, and he was saying that due of his comments about my body odor, we had stopped being intimate, and that I would no longer kiss him. His mother, in turn, advised him to be patient if he wanted to keep me with him. George’s father had always said such things to her, and it was a surefire method to keep a lady by your side.
The woman was intended to stay with one guy for life because “she will feel too low to cheat, will be devoted only to you, and will always be fresh and clean.”
So, essentially, Lilly’s mother-in-law was instructing her son on how to deceive Lilly into staying with him, even revealing the despicable tactics his own father had used on her. Lilly was horrified by this revelation and enraged that George would use such disgusting means. The woman said, “George does not yet realize that I am aware of everything.
I want a divorce, but not until I get revenge on him. I know that for many others, George’s acts would not be a major basis for divorce, but I just can’t picture spending the rest of my life with someone who uses ‘ smelly methods’ on a lady who loves him with all her heart.”
