My daughter lashed out at me for coming to her graduation ceremony because I was a biker – long beard, tattoos, leather vest, and all. I parked my ’82 Harley Shovelhead in the garage, my arthritic hands still vibrating from the rumble of the engine. At 68, most men my age had traded in their bikes for comfortable sedans, but I’d die before giving up my last connection to freedom.
“Okay, I’ll call you later… dad’s home,” I heard my 18-year-old daughter Megan say before hanging up her phone. I found her flipping through TV channels, deliberately avoiding eye contact. I knew what this was about – her graduation ceremony was in two days, and she was hoping I wouldn’t bring it up.
“Hey, sweetheart! Look what I got for you,” I said, trying to sound cheerful despite the bone-deep exhaustion from a long day at the garage I still owned. Megan glanced up briefly, then looked away.
I knew that look. She was ashamed of me – of my weathered face with its road map of wrinkles, the tattoos covering my arms telling stories of Vietnam and brotherhood, my gray beard that I refused to trim short like the “respectable” fathers of her friends. I’d been living with that look for years, ever since she started high school and realized her dad wasn’t like the others – wasn’t a lawyer or doctor or businessman.
Just an old biker who’d spent forty years with grease under his fingernails, the smell of motor oil permanently embedded in his skin. I respected her boundaries and set the packages on the coffee table instead. “Sweetheart, I hope you love them!”
Once I was out of the room, I heard her unwrapping the gifts.
I’d spent my savings on a beautiful graduation dress and a new suit for myself. After all these years of working double shifts to keep her in private school, I wasn’t going to miss her graduation for anything. “Thanks for the dress, dad.
But who’s the suit for?” she called out. “It’s for me, honey! I have to look amazing… it’s your graduation, after all!”
The silence that followed was deafening.
Then came her voice, cold as January steel. “Dad, I don’t want you to come. All my friends and their parents will be attending.
I don’t want them to laugh at me after seeing you, alright?”
I walked out of the bathroom, towel in hand, certain I’d misheard her. “What did you say?”
“Dad, my friends’ fathers are all respectable business people. They wear suits to work, not leather vests with patches.
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