It started at Jessica’s birthday party. Though honestly, I should have seen it coming months ago. You know how they say hindsight is 20/20?
Well, mine turned out to be laser-focused.
I’m Margaret Sullivan, but everyone calls me Maggie. I’m 67 years old, a retired elementary school teacher, and apparently the family ATM, according to my own son.
Three years ago when my husband Frank died, I thought my biggest worry would be loneliness. We lived in a quiet, tree-lined neighborhood in a Midwestern suburb, the kind with American flags on the porches on Memorial Day and kids biking home at dusk.
I imagined myself puttering around our little brick house, tending roses in the backyard and keeping Frank’s old Dodge in the driveway as a kind of shrine.
Turns out, my biggest problem wasn’t loneliness. It was my own family treating me like their personal bank—with a beating heart attached. The party was at some fancy restaurant downtown, in our mid-sized Midwestern city.
The kind of place with exposed brick, Edison bulbs, reclaimed wood tables, and cocktails that cost more than a decent pair of shoes.
In the corner, a big-screen TV silently played a baseball game with the sound off while a group of guys at the bar pretended not to check the score. Jessica had insisted on celebrating her 42nd birthday there, despite the fact that my monthly contribution to their mortgage was what made such luxuries possible.
But did anyone mention that? Of course not.
I arrived precisely at 6, wearing my best navy dress and the pearl necklace Frank gave me on our 25th anniversary.
Call me old-fashioned, but I still believe in making an effort for family occasions. I drove myself downtown, found overpriced parking in a garage that smelled like exhaust and rain, and walked the two blocks to the restaurant, my heels clicking on the cracked city sidewalk. The hostess led me through the crowded restaurant to a large round table where David, my son, sat with his wife, Jessica, and their two kids.
“Mom.” David stood up, giving me one of those quick, obligatory hugs.
“You made it.”
“Of course I made it. It’s Jessica’s birthday.”
I smiled at my daughter-in-law, who managed a tight smile in return.
Jessica had never quite warmed to me, even after 15 years of marriage to my son. According to her, I was too involved, too opinionated—too much of everything.
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