After her daughter embarked on a weight loss journey and became more confident in her skin, she began bullying another girl bigger than her, leaving a mother to make a difficult decision.
A Reddit user wanted the input of others on the platform to ask if she had been too harsh in how she chose to punish her daughter after the young girl, Abby, treated a friend who had a similar problem to Abby. The original poster (OP) explained that she and her daughter’s father had split after he left before Abby was born. Five years later, he returned to their lives and wanted to take responsibility for his daughter.
The court gave Abby’s father 50% custody, and he covered 60% of Abby’s financial needs. He also felt guilty for not being around for the formative years of her life, so he spoiled her. The OP believed being spoiled by her father led to Abby’s pre-teen weight gain, which is a big reason for her post.
What Happened with Abby and Her Mother?
A year before the post, when Abby was 17, she had begun a weight loss journey. Although her mother believed everybody was beautiful, she supported her daughter and incentivized the process. For each milestone Abby reached in her journey, the OP would give her a small gift.
However, a few months before her eighteenth birthday, Abby asked her mother to stop giving her small gifts for each milestone and save them for her birthday. The OP readily agreed. Abby asked that instead of all the small gifts, her mother would pay for a vacation for her and her friends to celebrate her birthday.
The OP assured Abby that this would be all right. However, it soon became apparent that the vacation needed to be fixed. What Happened to Abby’s Birthday Vacation?
As the OP prepared for her daughter’s vacation, she phoned the parents of the two other girls who were meant to go with her daughter.
On one of these phone calls, the OP discovered Abby’s best friend, Betty, would no longer be joining the other two girls on the vacation. The OP knew that Betty loved traveling and had been looking forward to the vacation. Confused, the OP asked why Betty would not be able to attend.
It was then that the OP found out what her daughter had done. Betty divulged that Abby had uninvited her from the vacation because she said of her friend, “She is too chubby to look good in pictures.” When the OP confronted her daughter, Abby explained:
“I didn’t work this hard for this vacation, so my pictures will be ruined.”
The OP was horrified and reminded her daughter how she would have felt if someone had left her out of a big event because of her weight. The OP then told Abby she was to apologize to Betty.
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