MY 18-YEAR-OLD DAUGHTER ALMOST MARRIED A 60-YEAR-OLD MAN, I WAS SHOCKED UNTIL I OVERHEARD THE TRUTH. My just-turned-adult daughter left me speechless by saying she’s going to marry a 60-YEAR-OLD MAN. To say I was floored would be putting it mildly.
I rushed to convince her not to do it:
Me: “Honey, WHY HIM? Find someone your own age… He’s more like a grandpa to you!”
Daughter: “He is my fiancé, and you won’t stop me! THE CEREMONY is on Friday.”
Me: “WHAT???
That’s next week!”
Daughter: “I LOVE HIM! If you meddle, you’ll never see me again.”
I begged her to think about the future, but she seemed to be under a spell! In despair, I went to talk to the groom.
Sure, my daughter is young and naive, but this man must have some common sense, right? But just before I could knock, I overheard his conversation with another woman. My 18-year-old daughter fell in love with a 60-year-old man and was marrying him against my wishes.
She claimed she was madly in love with this guy. I was shocked when I discovered a chilling truth about him. The late afternoon sun bathed the living room as I sifted through mundane mail, the doorbell’s chime announcing Serena’s early arrival from her part-time job.
She breezed in, her vibrant presence filling the space with energy and the scent of vanilla. I eagerly waited for this time of the month when she’d visit me. “Hey, Dad!
You won’t believe what happened with my roommate, Jessica…” Serena paused, sensing my unease. “Everything okay?”
“Yeah, yeah,” I said. “Everything’s great.
Come on in, honey.”
“So,” I began, “you were saying…”
“Yeah, Dad. Actually…I met someone, and he’s like all nice and caring. Edison.
Really loves me. We want to get married. But he’s…”
“But?”
“He’s sixty.”
The word ‘sixty’ hit me hard.
My daughter, eighteen, with a man sixty — almost thrice her age? Concern and disbelief clouded my judgment. “Sixty, Serena?
That’s… can’t you see the issue here?”
“Age doesn’t define love, Dad. Edison understands me, believes in me.”
“But what about the future, Serena? He’s much older.”
“Love isn’t about numbers, Dad.
It’s about feeling seen, loved, cared for, and Edison makes me feel that way,” Serena’s voice trembled with conviction. “Please, can you at least meet him once? Trust me, you’ll love him.”
I was shocked beyond words.
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