A man — who asked to remain anonymous — wrote to us about his marriage of eight years. His wife, according to him, is strong, ambitious, and financially successful. He, on the other hand, is still “finding his path.” For the last five years, she’s carried the financial load for the household, while he’s contributed what he can through occasional gigs and emotional support.
But now, the marriage is teetering on the edge of something bigger. It’s not about love, or chores, or even money — not exactly. It’s about family, and what fairness really looks like when one partner earns a lot…
and the other doesn’t. He says all he wants is equality. She says she’s done being his safety net.
What started as a quiet tension over in-laws has now sparked a conversation that might just cost them their relationship. Here’s what he told us. 
Here’s the man’s letter to our editorial:
“Hi,
I (34M) have been married to my wife (35F) for 8 years.
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