13 years of marriage shattered in a moment…

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BIG mistake. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago, my sister called me crying and told me she had a confession and said, “Please don’t hate me”.

She proceeded to tell me that one night when I was at work, she came over to my house and drank with my husband.

(Danny was also working nights).

In between sobs, she finally gets it out that she and Jackass were laughing, drinking and playing cards when all of a sudden he kissed her. She said they kissed and made out for about 5 minutes and that was it.

I basically told her to fuck off and hung up on her and went upstairs to confront Jackass. At first he said she was lying for “attention” but I knew.

Then he said that they were both so drunk that he gave her a couple ‘pecks’.

I couldn’t take his bullshit lying, so I told him to pack a bag and get the fuck out.

I called a divorce lawyer and am in the process of filing for a legal separation. My sister and my dad want me to forgive and forget because it was a “drunken mistake”.

My mom is completely on my side and is disgusted with them both. Danny has also left my sister and is divorcing her.

Jackass keeps calling me, texting me, leaving messages begging for forgiveness saying, “please don’t throw away 13 years over a kiss” I know this is a stupid question, but AITAH?

My husband, sister and father seem to think I am if I divorce him.

Sorry it’s so long, I wanted to add context and background.