13 Stepparents Who Proved Parenthood Is About Heart, Not DNA

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Inside were the game tickets I’d been dreaming of. He told me he’d seen how hard I’d worked to save up and wanted to help. I realized then he’d been paying attention all along, even when I’d been ignoring him.

I finally saw he cared about me in a way I hadn’t let myself believe. Story 6: 

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I am a stepmother, and the child turns only to me with all his problems. It’s sad.

I’m teaching his dad to talk to him too. On the other hand, I understand that it’s easier for me: I can see the situation from the outside, and have less responsibility, so it’s easier to find a common language when you are not responsible for the child 24/7. But it’s still sad. © Overheard / Ideer

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When I became a stepmom to Lila, she kept her distance.

She’d always hide little mementos of her mom, like a locket she always wore. One day, she came home from school in tears, saying she’d lost it. I could see how much it meant to her, so I spent the whole evening retracing her steps, asking around, trying to find it.

Finally, I found the locket under the bleachers near the school gym. I think finding it changed her mind, just a little. Since then, she’s let me in more, seeing me as someone who cares, too.

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All my life, I dreamed of having a twin sister. When I was 14, my parents divorced and my father married a woman with a daughter my age. My stepmother bought me and her daughter the same clothes.

The funny thing is that we also had the same names. One day we went to the beauty parlor with her and the stylist asked, “Are they twins? What’s their names?” The stepmother says our name.

The stylist, “Why do they have the same name?” And my stepmother calmly says, “So we don’t get confused.” © Overheard / Ideer

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A friend of mine is from a wealthy family. A guy twice her age, a widower with children, started courting her. She laughed, calling him a penniless old man.

But one day he came to her with his 3 little children. She saw the little ones and something clicked in her heart. Because of those children, she agreed to marry him.

And she gave birth to 3 more. She supported her husband, he started his own business and became successful. She raised those kids as her own, they adore her.

And her husband adores her. © Overheard / Ideer

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